Abbey and I had a productive office visit with Dr. Blondin from Yale. Usually, we go to New Haven, and since I didn't need an MRI, we were able to see him in the Trumbell clinic, which is much easier-- the drive is marginally shorter and more scenic; parking is a breeze (and free); and while I am there for a brain tumor, the experience is not as stifling as the main campus.

Dr. Blondin, as always, provided clinical and almost clergy-like care. The last appointment had a lot of information that increased fear. He could tell from my questions and said, "don't worry, I'll take care of you." WOW. That was like a balm for my soul. Today, the gentle tone was similar. We discussed what I learned from all my visits last week; tumor growth (from the emergency MRI that was ordered); and the next steps. I explained that last week was exhausting and emotionally taxing, particularly because providers from three fantastic hospitals can't agree. He sympathizes with the frustration and fatigue and will corral the information and call on Friday. There he goes again. Earlier in the appointment, he said a lot of what he does is not curative; it is palliative care. (Really, how can one expect to cure brain cancer?) That is exactly what he is doing - relieving stress and anxiety while helping care for my family and me.